How can i make being a $lut go away? and how bad do you think it is?

Actions speak louder than words, so rather than trying to TELL people you're not a slut, just stop ACTING like a slut. If you really haven't done any of that for two months like you said, you're on the right track. You can start by not refering to yourself as a slut, when people see that YOU respect yourself and your body, THEY will respect you too. So stop with the trash talk, because even if you don't call other people sluts, calling yourself one is even worse. So give it time and don't go back to your old ways. I know right now you feel like everyone's watching and making fun of you, but just wait till you get to high school, no one cares what went down in middle school anymore. You seem to be under the impression that only promiscuous girls have fun, but do remember that good girls can have fun too. There's nothing wrong with dancing at a party. And hey, Lady Gaga's my idol too, but not because she shows off her body. She's a strong, smart, talented woman, who remains composed and professional even when people call HER a slut. You seem outgoing and fun, which are great qualities when you use them for GOOD and not EVIL. Just be nice, humble, and modest and don't give up. Oh and don't swear, it makes people think you're disgusting whether you are or not.